English

With one another and with oneself: -(ı)ş, -(ı)n and birbirine

English tells greet each other from get dressed by the words around them. Turkish splits the two senses with two different tails, and they must not be swapped. For example: “Komşularla her sabah selamlaşırız” — Every morning we greet the neighbors. A rule from the Turkish course: worked out on examples, not memorized as a wording.

Updated September 1, 2026 · Lingofly

How it works

English tells greet each other from get dressed by the words around them. Turkish splits the two senses with two different tails, and they must not be swapped.

-ış means doing it to one another: görüşmek, to see each other. From a noun it arrives as -laş: selamlaşmak, to exchange greetings. A verb like this always has several doers: Komşularla her sabah selamlaşırız.

-ın means doing it to yourself: giyinmek, to get dressed; soyunmak, to undress.

The trap is the verbs that have no mutual form at all. There you take a separate word, birbir-: birbirimizi tanıyoruz, we know each other.

Table

With one another and with oneself: -(ı)ş, -(ı)n and birbirine
the tailthe meaningexampletranslation
-ış / -işto one anothergörüşmekto see each other
-laş / -leşfrom a noun, mutualselamlaşmakto greet one another
-ın / -inoneselfgiyinmekto get dressed
-ın / -inoneselfsoyunmakto undress
-tır / -dırto make, to bring togethertanıştırmakto introduce
birbir-“each other” by a wordbirbirimizi tanıyoruzwe know each other

By example

  • Komşularla her sabah selamlaşırız
    Every morning we greet the neighbors
  • Havaalanında uzun uzun vedalaştık
    At the airport we said our long goodbyes
  • Seni ablamla tanıştırayım
    Let me introduce you to my sister

How the rule settles in your head

A rule is not memorized from an explanation. It is memorized from an attempt to use it and a mistake — that is why the app delivers it mixed in with words, not as a separate lesson: it resurfaces exactly where you forgot it.

Frequently asked

With one another and with oneself: how does it work in Turkish?

English tells greet each other from get dressed by the words around them. Turkish splits the two senses with two different tails, and they must not be swapped.

What does it look like in an example sentence Turkish?

“Komşularla her sabah selamlaşırız” — Every morning we greet the neighbors. A rule is easier to test on sentences like this than to memorize as a wording: what surfaces in conversation is the sentence.

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