They made up in Valencian
Quarreling and making up with a friend in Valencian. 6 phrases that the conversation is made of: «Estic enfadat amb tu.» — I am angry with you.; «Per què? Què et passa?» — Why? What happened to you? The conversation is predictable: few lines, and almost all of them repeat from one exchange to the next.
How the whole thing sounds
The situation: quarreling and making up with a friend. The conversation is short and predictable — which is exactly what makes it good for a first try: few lines, and almost all of them repeat from one exchange to the next.
- Estic enfadat amb tu.I am angry with you.
- Per què? Què et passa?Why? What happened to you?
- Ahir em vas deixar esperar una hora a l'entrada.Yesterday you made me wait an hour at the entrance.
- Tens raó, perdona. No ho volia fer.You are right, sorry. I did not want to do it.
- Tranquil, no passa res. Fem les paus?Calm, no harm done. Shall we make peace?
- D'acord. Una abraçada!Agreed. A hug!
Lines one by one
| Valencian | Reading | Translation |
|---|---|---|
| Estic enfadat amb tu. | — | I am angry with you. |
| Per què? Què et passa? | — | Why? What happened to you? |
| Ahir em vas deixar esperar una hora a l'entrada. | — | Yesterday you made me wait an hour at the entrance. |
| Tens raó, perdona. No ho volia fer. | — | You are right, sorry. I did not want to do it. |
| Tranquil, no passa res. Fem les paus? | — | Calm, no harm done. Shall we make peace? |
| D'acord. Una abraçada! | — | Agreed. A hug! |
How to prepare for a conversation like this
Memorizing the lines is not enough: the other person will say their own thing, not what is written. What helps more is catching the key words by ear and keeping three rescue phrases ready: “I don't understand”, “repeat, please”, “slower”.
And one more thing phrasebooks do not mention: awkwardness gets in the way more than not knowing the words.
- Fear of making mistakes gets in the way of learning a language, and it gets in the way badly. It is one of the most reliably measured findings in the entire field.checked many timesTeimouri, Goetze & Plonsky, 2019, Studies in Second Language Acquisition 41(2) · 19,933 participants from 23 countries; correlation with results r = −0.36.
- That fear can be dealt with — the methods have been tested and they work.checked many timesXiong et al., 2024, Journal of Language and Social Psychology · 37 studies, anxiety reduced by −0.61. Of the seven conditions examined, only age turned out to matter.
Frequently asked
How do you start a conversation in Valencian in this situation?
“Estic enfadat amb tu.” — I am angry with you.. The first line in such a conversation is almost always the same, and that is the one worth learning: the other person will carry it from there.
What if you did not understand the reply?
Say “I don't understand” and “repeat, please” — both are in the rescue set. Admitting your language is still shaky almost always makes the other person more patient.
Should you memorize the dialogue?
No. It is more useful to catch the key words by ear: the other person will say their own thing, and a memorized line will not always fit their reply.