எனக்கு வெக்கமா இருக்கு

In short

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  எனக்கு வெக்கமா இருக்கு

  eṉakku vekkamā irukku

  I am ashamed

Why it looks that way

An impersonal turn: literally 'to me it is shameful'. Shame and shyness are one word here, and only the setting splits them

A word with a story stays in memory longer than one learned as a “spelling — translation” pair: memory holds on to meaning, not to a string.

In a live sentence

A single word almost never appears alone in conversation. A sentence shows where it fits and what stands next to it.

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  அப்படி சொன்னதுக்கு எனக்கு வெக்கமா இருக்கு

  appaḍi soṉṉadukku eṉakku vekkamā irukku

  I am ashamed that I said that

How not to forget this word

Reading a word and remembering it are different jobs. A day later, little survives of a single reading — and that is not bad memory, that is how memory works.

• This has been tested on foreign words too. The difference shows up most when you test yourself a few days later rather than straight away.checked many times
  Kim & Webb, 2022, Language Learning 72(2) · 48 experiments, 3,411 participants, 98 comparisons.
• Recalling beats re-reading. Covering the translation and trying to remember it does more than reading it ten more times.checked many times
  Adesope, Trevisan & Sundararajan, 2017, Review of Educational Research 87(3) · 188 experiments, 272 comparisons. g = 0.61; against plain re-reading 0.51, against passive review 0.93.
• An answer you worked out yourself sticks better than one handed to you.checked many times
  Bertsch et al., 2007, Memory & Cognition 35(2) · 86 studies, 445 comparisons, d = 0.40.

Next

• எனக்கு அலுத்துப் போச்சு — I am fed upread “eṉakku aluttup pōccu”
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• நட்பு — friendshipread “naṭpu”
• தோழி — female friendread “tōḻi”
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