A request that doesn't sound like an order

The usted command is built with a twist: the vowels swap places. For -ar verbs the ending becomes -e (hablar → hable), for -er and -ir — -a (comer → coma, abrir → abra). This is the form you need with the technician, the doctor and the bank. For example: “Espere un momento, por favor” — Wait a moment, please. A rule from the Spanish course: worked out on examples, not memorized as a wording.

Updated September 1, 2026 · Lingofly

How it works

The usted command is built with a twist: the vowels swap places. For -ar verbs the ending becomes -e (hablar → hable), for -er and -ir-a (comer → coma, abrir → abra). This is the form you need with the technician, the doctor and the bank.

For 'tú' it's simpler: take the 'he' form of the present. Espera — wait, Firma aquí — sign here. A dozen common verbs do it their own way: ven, ten, pon, haz, di, sal. English makes no distinction here — one bare 'wait!' for everyone — so this is a choice Spanish makes you notice.

Pronouns attach to the end: espéreme, explíquemelo. The word grows longer, the stress lands three syllables from the end — and an accent appears that the plain form never had.

But more important than the grammar: a bare imperative sounds abrupt in Spain, and it gets softened into a question. ¿Me puede ayudar?, ¿Podría venir mañana? — the same content, but a request rather than an order. With por favor at the end, almost anything passes.

Table

A request that doesn't sound like an order
infinitiveusted
esperaresperaespere
rellenarrellenarellene
comercomecoma
abrirabreabra
venirvenvenga

By example

  • Espere un momento, por favor
    Wait a moment, please
  • Rellene el formulario y firme abajo
    Fill in the form and sign at the bottom
  • ¿Me puede explicar esto otra vez?
    Could you explain this to me one more time?

How the rule settles in your head

A rule is not memorized from an explanation. It is memorized from an attempt to use it and a mistake — that is why the app delivers it mixed in with words, not as a separate lesson: it resurfaces exactly where you forgot it.

Frequently asked

A request that doesn't sound like an order: how does it work in Spanish?

The usted command is built with a twist: the vowels swap places. For -ar verbs the ending becomes -e (hablar → hable), for -er and -ir — -a (comer → coma, abrir → abra). This is the form you need with the technician, the doctor and the bank.

What does it look like in an example sentence Spanish?

“Espere un momento, por favor” — Wait a moment, please. A rule is easier to test on sentences like this than to memorize as a wording: what surfaces in conversation is the sentence.

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